By “desire,” I mean that in the heat of the moment, when you feel that someone has insulted or disrespected you, you get a strong, almost burning urge to insult them back. Even if you control yourself and choose not to respond, a part of you may later feel as though you have put yourself down or failed to stand up for yourself by staying silent in that moment.
ok yuv if u askn specifically... yes its gud to control ur emotion but at the same tym supress thm will make things worse .. u shud decide acc to situation. ie.. kindness humanity is cool but wen it comes to our nation or family we go to any tym for protect them.
fir ex u love someone nd tgey took ur emotions for granted and doing things which is harmful fr ur reputation. thn u shud control feelings for love nd tell them straight they shud behave.. emotions shud mke u strong nt a weaker version of u.